![]() ![]() Welcome to a day in my life.Ħ:00am I open my eyes and say a brief prayer, thanking God for waking me up but simultaneously asking Him why I’m here. Does it make you uncomfortable? Are you shocked or surprised? Does it make you feel sorry? Or sad? However it makes you feel, hold onto that. Thank you.How does that title make you feel? I Cry Myself To Sleep Sometimes. I just need some encouraging words or even gentle advice. I’m trying to be grateful that he’s affectionate because I know there are many spouses and SO in this subreddit who withhold most, if not all, affection but these little crumbs are slowly crushing me. I feel so led on, like this was going to happen and be such a good time. I cried by myself and he has no idea that I’m upset. I ask him if he’s bored and he basically says yes, would you like me to leave? I nodded completely crushed that once again he didn’t want to have sex with me and he left. He basically backs off and acts like he’s going to fall asleep. ![]() We get into bed and lock the door (his son was home, age 12). I come home and he’s very touchy and flirty. Me: let’s do it! I’m so attracted to you, I can’t control myself. He is an early morning person so I figure this is perfect. Today, I texted him that I was super in the mood and was hoping we could have sex when I got home from work. My self esteem has taken a huge fucking hit. Maybe if I was sexier or better in bed, he would be able to stay hard. Every time he couldn’t stay hard, I felt like it was all my fault. He’s ignored many of my subtle and in your face attempts to initiate sex. He’s had issues with staying hard during sex, orgasming, and lower than normal libido. But the truth is, I stopped trying to initiate because I was so upset by all the rejections. I refused to talk about it at that time because I felt the other issue was more important and I felt like he was using this as a distraction to get out of the other argument. He asked me last week why I hadn’t initiated in a long time, did he say or do something to make me stop? He happened to ask this in the middle of us arguing about something else. He’s incredibly affectionate so I know I’m lucky that he at least is always hugging me and touching me. We are currently having sex about once a month. Things have been kind of up and down lately. the answers to our most frequently asked asked questions. Exceptions to this rule: any OP is permitted to cross post their own content, cross posting when OP has included permission for cross-posting in the post. If you can’t respect the flair on a post, it is not the post for you to comment on.Ĭross-posting r/deadbedrooms posts elsewhere will result in a no-warning, permanent ban. Some people come here for support and don’t want advice. Users with little to no history here showing up to lecture us, especially about morality, may be given a no-warning, permanent ban.īe polite. Egregious or repeat violations may result in a no-warning, permanent ban. This includes red pill and generally, yourbrainonporn, biotruthers, religions, divorce/adultery is always wrong, etc. Soap boxing on religion, politics, culture, media, or any other ideological baloney is off topic here. Advocating non-consensual sexual activity is not okay.Īdvocating non-consensual sexual activity is not okay: This includes unwanted groping, drugging someone, open and unwelcome masturbation, initiating on a sleeping partner (without prior consent), duty sex (unwanted coerced sex), reproductive coercion, or suggesting that LLs should "just do it." Violating this rule may result in a no-warning, permanent ban. "Lip-smacking" is also not tolerated, it is not appropriate.ĥ. Lesser violations such as soliciting DMs are subject to removal. Hitting on people, sending unwelcome DMs, R4R posts, directing traffic to onlyfans, all can result in a no-warning, permanent ban. Sexist, racist, and generally offensive content will be removed. Comments should be supportive and constructive. Don't assume someone deserves their dead bedroom.ĭon't respond to someone opening up about their DB with judgement or blame. Contributions must be compassionate, considerate, and humane.īe mindful of how your words will feel to the human who is receiving them. A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy.ġ. ![]()
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